Living Free: Why We’re Raising Our Black-American Muslim Family Abroad

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The idea of living abroad has been a dream for many. The experience of living and making a life outside of ones home country can appear unattainable. Haute and Muslim sat down with Taifa Naeem, an African American expat in Qatar to gain some insight into living abroad.

Can you tell our readers more about you? I was born and raised in Philadelphia. I’ve been married for 21 years and have been blessed with three sons ages 9,13, & 15. I hold an MBA in Healthcare Administration. I’ve worked in education/social service field for 18 years. Recently I’ve launched a personal jewelry consultancy shop, Luxe Collection By Iman.

What inspired your move abroad? My husband and I wanted to give our African American Muslim sons a better opportunity in life than we had growing up as Muslims in America. We want them to live in peace and without fear of being Muslim or Black. We wanted to obtain financial and Islamic freedom while taking advantage of all opportunities living abroad. 

Was this always a dream for your family? Yes, we began talking about living abroad from the beginning of our marriage we just didn’t know how or exactly when it would happen. We didn’t know what that would look like however we began our research. Once we started to travel we realized how big this world really is and the many options we could possibly have. Our ideal situation for our family is to live a peaceful Islamic life with western comfort-abilities while maintaining our African American Islamic Culture. During our wedding anniversary vacation to Dubai we realized then that we found what we were looking for, the best of both worlds. Once my husband graduated from medical school and completed his residency we began to implement our plan to move abroad. The original plan was to move to UAE where one of my best friends lived. We ended up in a neighboring country, Qatar a smaller Gulf country with the same sensibilities, and way of life as Dubai. 

What are some of the benefits of living in Doha compared to other countries? For myself I don’t have to be a “super woman ” in my day to day life. I’ve been able to become more feminine, relaxed. I’ve embraced all of the opportunities that eliminated me having to do and be all things at all times. My concern for safety is not at an all time high when I walk out of my door each day. Having a clean proper place to pray has become a norm for our family. Eating without thought about consuming haram foods is a blessing. Our ability to travel the world as a family has been ten-fold. Experiencing a sense of freedom with no boundaries/limitations is beyond our imagination. 

What opportunities have you seen raising children abroad? My boys don’t have to grow up faster then what is necessary and they aren’t overly exposed to a sexualized society. They can truly act and be their age. My boys are able to learn who they are without societal expectations of what they should be based on external facts that they would be exposed to in a western environment. Our children attend a school with over 70 nationalities this allows them to truly have a global perspective instead of a neighborhood or city perspective. Attending a school where Islam is not looked down upon. To me their school offers a great American public school education as well as an Islamic education without having to go to a private Islamic school like they would if we were in America. They get the best of both worlds. The world isn’t just made up of Muslims so they have to be able to navigate successfully with everyone no matter their religious background, political views, ideology etc.. We have to prepare them to thrive and be successful side by side with everyone from all walks of life and what better way for them to have that experience! 

Has the language barrier been difficult? Yes and No! Yes, the first year of living abroad and getting settled in our new environment. But our day to day No because all of the major places we go to everyone speaks English. The only time you really need to speak Arabic is when you go into smaller local shops or if you are in a car accident (you then kick yourself for not learning to speaking Arabic fluently)! It is hard to learn Arabic here because everyone wants to speak to us in English so it’s easy to get lazy when it comes to speaking Arabic.

What lessons have you learned as advice for families seeking to relocate? Have a plan, formal education so that you can get the best package for work and your family. It’s best to move when the kids are younger. It’s very hard for pre-teens/teenagers if they are leaving behind a great environment ie they like and is happy with  their school, lifestyle and friends. Come with an open mind and accepting a different way of life. It’s not America it’s whatever country you decide to live so it will be different but you have to asks yourself does the benefits outweigh the costs? 

What action steps should one take in preparing a job search or looking for a home?Formal Education, solid work background/experience, research the country (cost of living, cost of education, societal norms, etc) write down goals, expectations, have hard no’s and yes, visit the country and lastly it will only work if you and your family are on the same page with an open mind! 

If there was one piece of advice what would that be? Try visit with the entire family if you can and communicate with your children about the move! 

Is there a dua or set of duas you make to stay spiritually centered? Yes, I have a list of organized duas I read for myself, family and friends regularly that I have on my phone. I just read impromptu and at set times ie before and/or after Salaat. 

What Dua would you like our readers to make for you and your family? Oh Allah bless our family with success in this world and the hereafter and we all live and die as striving believing Muslims, Allahuma Ameen🤲🏽

Ameenah Muhammad-Diggins is an award winning American Entrepreneur and Business Coach. Her best selling book " Bashirah and the Amazing Bean Pie" made history when it became the first Islamic Children's book to be adapted into a play by a major U.S. museum. She founded Haute and Muslim in 2020 to answer the need for a faith based inspirational lifestyle brand. She has been featured in Essence Magazine, Huffington Post, Rolling Out , Philadelphia Magazine and SJ Magazine. Have an idea for an article? Email ameenah@muhammaddiggins.com IG @ameenah_diggins


  1. Aliya

    Taifa Bint Yazid Naeem I really enjoyed this read. May Allah continue to bless your family and give others similar opportunity to live and thrive abroad, Ameen. And I learned something new about you, I didn’t know you have a MBA is Healthcare Administration.

  2. Jamilah Bashir

    This was such a nice read. Great perspective of exposing your children different cultures and walks of life, while holding onto their African-American culture. I loved the the tips Taifa have if this is something you want to do for your family. May Allah bless her and her family with all of the good of this life and the hereafter, Ameen.

  3. Michelle

    I enjoyed reading this so much! I myself have often thought about living abroad for the same reasons mentioned by above. I also appreciate the value given to family time and a more peaceful way of life when you live abroad. The way of life abroad seems to align more with my values and morals than in the U.S.
    This story is inspiring and I hope I get the chance to experience this one day myself with my family, insha’Allah. Ameen to sister Taifa’s dua for her and her family!

  4. Shariea Shoatz

    Alhamdulillah that was such a beautiful article. I really appreciate your honesty about teens moving abroad, and the need to have a formal education.

    Your insight reminded me of how much I loved when I lived in UAE, and why it would be challenging to take my children back at this point in their lives.

    Their family is so dynamic, and such a blessing for our community. We benefitted from them during Ramadan although they live overseas.

    We thank you for opening your home during our blessed month, and sharing your family’s Salaatul Tawareeh every day. Maa Shaa Allah.
    May Allah reward you for this blog, and Taifa and her family for sharing their world.

    • Jamela Bilal

      Alhamdulillah! This was a wonderful read. I have long been interested in living overseas, ever since my short but significant travels to several North African Countries. This article gave me some insight on the steps and decisions I should consider in order to make this dream a reality. I thank you for your transparency and honesty. I have always admired you, your family and your story. Shukran to the writer/blogger for choosing such relevant and needed content!

  5. Husain Mahmoud

    As Salaam Alaykum

    Thank you this was an excellent article. I am looking to retire abroad and live out my last days in an Islamic environment.

    • Ameenah Muhammad-Diggins

      Wa-Alaikum Salaam
      Alhumdulilah you enjoyed the article. May Allah swt make it easy for you to achieve your goals. -AMEEN!

  6. Na'ilah

    Masalaams Taifa what an Awesome article.

    May Allah continue to bless you and your family while granting you the Best of this Life and the Hereafter – Ameen…

    P.S. I’ll pass this article along to Foi.

  7. Albani

    I loved the article keep doing y’all thing 🙌🏽🙏🏽

  8. Aliyah Abdulwudud

    May Allah swt continue to bless this beautiful family Ameen.

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